
Imagine all the children in orphanages across the globe. Orphaned, not necessarily biologically, their parents might still be alive. Although, we cannot save the world, those who adopt children (for the right reasons--- debateable) need to be commended for their efforts.
I think about adoption a lot because its what I would like to do. My reasons are simple, there are one too many orphans. With things like war, famine, and disease, all over the world, the number of orphans continue to rise. In Nairobi and other cities in Kenya, these orphans end up on the streets since there is no social structure to protect them. Some of them are abandoned by their poor parents.
I don't know if you have been to an orphanage, but they are terrible... imagine the worst boarding school.... and being there your whole life.
The best way, really, when adopting a child is by providing the best for them, as you would your own child. There are other factors to consider though. If you are a Kenyan living in Kenya, then adopting one of our own is a non-issue. A factor that someone considering adopting should think about is CULTURE and FAMILY. Also, if as an individual (foreigners especially) with great political power then it would make more sense to use this to support the communities and institutions which are taking care of these children.
So here's my beef.... with kina Angelina Jolie, and now I skia Madonna (claims she has vehemently denied) will be adopting an African kid. So what really is their drive? Its not like there are no white orphans here in the states.... white man's burden? moral obligations? to save the brown/black people? But I am sure they cant think that deep..... These are just vanity projects...... oh, poor africam child!! come on!! The important thing then is to look at the issues on why these children end up in orphanages. It is actually arrogant to think that by adopting, say an African child, one is alleviating poverty.
So if you are a Kenyan living in the US and want to adopt a child, even if black from Kenya... seriously think about the cultural consequences of bringing up your child in this country.
Hmm, a very contentious argument..... but please white america adopt your own. And if the standards here for adopting are too stringent, then something ought to be done about it!! We must also encourage peeps back home to think of adopting children, and treating them as one of them. Last count I heard, there are over 2000 adoption agencies in Kenya..... a money making business.... the baby market!! .... so there are issues here..... .
I was googling info on adoption agencies in Kenya, and came across this interesting article.
So let's take care of the children of the world..... And mostly because they are orphans we should think about the consequences of uprooting them from their homes. Apparently, this is a famous African quote... It takes a village to raise a child. How true! And raise them as our own, not as people who will owe you for the rest of their lives for rescuing them.
Monday, October 09, 2006
Save the Children
Posted by Majonzi at 8:17 PM
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This article really made me think about the adoption issue. Ideally i would prefer to raise my own kids but who knows what circumstances may present at my door step? so i can never say i would never ever adopt.
As for akina Angelina Jolie and whichever celebs who are adopting in developing countries, you can never trully know why they choose to adopt in these countries so you can't be too hard in judging them.
You can't compare an orphanage in the US to that of other countries say the developing ones which may have some of the worst conditions because of lack of resources.
Maybe their motivation (celebs or non celebs) is the fact that conditions in other countries are so deplorable for the kids and thats why they would rather adopt a kid who is coming from these circumstances as opposed to one of their "own" in the US. This is not to say that kids in the US don't need homes too but compared to other countries, their situation may be way better.
Just came across this: from an Eritrean adoptee (a Brit journalist)....
What is it with celebrities and African babies? They just can't leave them alone. According to reports, Madonna is the latest celebrity to do an "Angelina", and adopt a child from the developing world.
If the story is true, the 48-year old singer has adopted a one-year-old boy from Malawi after her first visit to the country. Two words: vanity project.
Madge wants a baby, so she goes to Africa and "saves" one - that way she gets her baby and scores lots of points for doing a good deed too.
I have no problem with philanthropy, I have no problem with western guilt, but I am sick of the idea that adoption by white westerns is the best thing for an African child.
Adoption is a complex beast at the best of times but when you throw race into the mix the waters get even muddier. The impression given is that by adopting an African child Madonna is somehow rescuing him from a life of certain misery. The implication being anything is better than growing up in Africa, even having Madonna as a mother.
Give or take 30 years, the similarities between my own adoption and that of Madonna's new son are spooky.
I was adopted from an orphanage in Eritrea at the age of six months by a white couple. My adoptive mother was from the United States, my dad England. Thankfully, they were academics rather than celebrities.
While my father was teaching at the University of Sudan, Khartoum, my mother, Marya visited an orphanage in Asmara, the capital of Eritrea. Overwhelmed by a desire to help, she left the orphanage with me.
They were told I had no family. This was a lie, a common one, told to make it more likely I'd be adopted.
Ten years ago I discovered my father was still alive, and I had brothers, a sister and countless aunts and uncles. Two years ago I went back to Eritrea and met my birth father for the first time.
I am what you would call an adoption success story. I love my adoptive family and have been successfully reunited with my birth family.
When I traced my birth family I came face to face with everything I had missed out on. I have grown up in the relative luxury of the west, and unlike my Eritrean family I have not experienced war or famine and yet I still wish I had never been adopted.
Madonna may think she's doing the child a favour, but really this is all about her. The money she will have spent on the adoption and the money she will spend on the child could have gone to help so many more children in Malawi. But of course then she wouldn't have a cute black child to show off.
Now, this is just an issue that has no right or wrong solution. It's hard to imagine turning one's back on a kid who needs loving parents just because they don't belong to the same race.
I think one needs to be in such a situation to really understand how someone can be driven to adopt any kid regardless of race.
Alot of issues may present themselves in the future but it's really hard to understand these issues unless you are involved in the whole situation.
turns out the rumors are true, and Madonna is realy going to adopt the Malawian child. Of most importance tho, I saw that she is funding an orphanage (actually, I hate this word, I thought we called them Children's Homes?)... so she is funding a Children's Home in Malawi... 400 children. :) This I like :)
Hmm, a very contentious argument..... but please white america adopt your own that is bold but i don't agree with u there
it has little to do with race... more with identity, it just happens that interracial adoption stands out... and a child grows up with the need to fit in... but never will...
ok but thing who can adopt now? not blacks but rich whites?
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